''ALL TRUETH ABOUT MEN" OR
THE LIST OF EXCUSES THAT HAS TO OMIT EACH WOMAN WHO EXPECTS HAPPINESS
The man can invent whatever excuses not to say the truth directly. It is easier to jump out of the window, then to say just directly :"You do not suit me". Probably, the man does not like you that much, if he does not invite you for a dating. Because, if the guy dating.
Here is the list of excuses from the book "All the truth about men", that should omit any woman who hope for happiness.
1. So, the excuse: "May be, he does not want to destroy our friendship". Pity, but this excuse is out of critic. And, do not say, for example, that: "He is scared". Only one thing that the guy can be scared in this case is that is to say the truth that you do not attract him at all.
2. The excuse: "Probably, he is not brave enough to make the first step". The woman can give the hint to the guy that she feels the sympathy to him. But, it is not worth to help him to invite you for the dating. The smile and the wink will be enough in this case.
3. The excuse: "May be, the guy does not want to accelerate the events". If the woman really attract the guy, but there are personal reasons why he does not want to force the events, such the guy will immediately say about it. He will not skip the response, as he needs to be sure that you will not get disappointed and will not disappear from his life .
4. Excuse: "But, he used to give me his phone number". Do not let the guy, using the cheep tricks, to make you to invite him for the dating. If, the guy is interested in the woman, he would do all by his own.
5. The excuse: "May be he forgot about me". Be sure, the guy remember you. And now leave all like it is. If the guy likes you, such the person will remember you whatever disaster happens there in his life.
Remember:
-- Any excuse means that the guy is not that much interested in your personality. The guys are not afraid to destroy friendship.
-- Do not accept the guy's tricks and do not invite the guy for the dating. If, the man really likes you, he will invite you by his own.
-- If you can find the guy, it means that the guy can find you. And, if he wishes to find you, he will do it.
-- "Let's meet in some party, in some cafe, at the friend's house, -- these do not belong to the dating.
-- You are worth enough to be invited for the dating.
Probably, not that much the guy likes the woman, if he does not call that woman. The man knows how to use the phone.
1. The excuse: "But he is so often travelling". Take like a note: the man who is interested in the woman and wants to spend time with that woman, will do it whatever it costs him.
2. The excuse: "But, he is busy with completely different things". The most important thing here is "Is it normal that the guy forgot to call me?" The response "No". The guy never has to forget that he promised to call you. Aren't you waiting for such the guy, that rather will forget about everything in his life, then about you?
3. The excuse: "He is talking not what exactly he is thinking about". Indeed, at the end of the phone conversation or dating, the man is talking what, as they think, the woman would like to hear. They think that it is better, then nothing. That's why, if the guy with whom the woman is dating, is promising to call and is not calling, so, if is it worth to pay attention on him? It is necessary to get the man who at least can keep to the given word.
4. Excuse:"But, he is very busy". The word "busy" is the bullshit. It is used with by assholes normally. The word "busy" can destroy in one moment any relationship. Being too much busy can seem to be a convincing excuse, but indeed behind this concept hides the man who was not interested to call you.
Remember:
--If he is not calling you, it means he is not thinking about you.
-- If he gives promises and later does not keep to the promises about not very important things, be sure that the same will happen later about the important things, too.
-- If the guy does not do any efforts to calm you down and stop the conflicts that may appear in the relationship, that's mean that he does not respect your feeling and needs.
The guy does not like the woman that much, if he is not recognizing the fact of relationship. As to spend time together it does not mean dating.
1. The excuse: "He just over lived the painful finish of relationship". Be careful about the word "friend". It is often used by men or women, who are in love with these men, to justify their bastard behaviour.
2. Excuse: :"But we are really dating".
The men, like the women, try to obtain the feeling of protection and safety, when they see that the relationship is getting serious. One of the most wild spread ways to get this is to claim the rights for that person. The guy who is really interested in you, will have the desire you totally belong to him.
3. The excuse: "It is better then nothing". You need the guy who really wants you, always calls you and makes you to feel the most sexual and willingly woman all over the world. The relationship where you meet with the guy one time in two weeks or in a month, and you are not feeling the love, the sympathy from his end, can due temporary, but not for entire life.
Remember:
-- Men are talking about their feelings, even is you regret to listen to or do not believe in their confession. "I am not ready to serious relationship" means that "I am not ready to serious relationship with you".
-- Better then nothing should not satisfact you.
-- If you do not understand what in going on in your relationship, it is nothing bad in asking a few questions.
-- There exist one guy all over the world, that would like to tell there everybody that he is your boy-friend. So, stop to be a fool: pick up and go to find him.
Not that much the guy likes you, if he does not want to make sex with you. If the man likes the woman, he always will have a wish to touch her. The true is simple: you do not attract him. And he does not want to make you pain.
1. Excuse: "He is afraid that he will feel pain again". If is he afraid? Yes, he is afraid to make you pain. That's why he did not make the situation with your relationship clear. He loves you like a friend. If he would like you like a woman, he could not control himself and would start a romantic story.
2. Excuse: "I drive crazy the guy so much, that he is not showing any interest".
Sure, many people in the past used to suffer. And nowadays those people are afraid of serious relationship. But, if the guy really loves the woman, nothing can stop him to get that woman, even the scare of serious relationship.
3. Excuse: "But this is so cool". Once they have believed that the woman regret to make sex with the man when wants for the purpurs to get the power upon that man. Seems like the males also educated to use this method. If the guy, who staying at the bed with you, just watches the movie there, you just do not attract that guy.
4. Excuse: "He is finding explanations for everything". Ask yourself a question: is such the relationship good for you? Or better, if you want to feel yourself like this all the rest of the life? The sex is also a great satisfaction that the man can obtain.
Remember:
-- Communication is wonderful. But, if communication is united with the sex, it is even better. Otherwise, it is just friendship, not relationship between man and woman. Better to find such the person who would not refrain from touching you.
-- If your self-esteem is low, such the person have to spend much more time for improving it, like for looking for the new boy-friend.
The guy does not like the woman that much, if he has sex with another woman. It does not exist any convincing excuse for the betray.
1. Excuse: "There is no excuse for him, and he knows that". The betray it is bad. And, being betraying, and being not able to explain the person why the betray took place, it is even worse. Do not meet with the guys who do not know why they did this or that.
2. Excuse: "But I got extra kilos". Possible you have to get rid of the extra kilos. But, first kick away the ass of the guy who betrays , saying that you have extra kilos.
3. Excuse: "He needs more sex, then me". These is no the excuse of betraying for that reason.. There are many ways to solve that very wildspread problem, that appears because of the difference of sexual needs.
4. Excuse: "But, he at least used to know her". It is not important, if the guy loves the woman or not. The guy let it know clearly what is there his attitude towards the romantic relationship. He got the temptation to meet another woman, organised the meeting with her, and had intimacy.
Remember:
-- There is no excuse for the betraying.
-- Only one responsibility what the person has while the attack of another person it is your own feelings.
-- The betray is the betray. And it is not important with whom the guy betrayed there and how many times it used to happen.
-- The liar can never be happy. ( Because all of them are bastards).
-- The man who betrays first of all betrays to himself, if he cannot build the normal relationship with one person.
The guy does not like you much indeed, if he wants to see you only when he is drunk. If the man likes the woman, he would look for the way to meet that woman when his brain is free of stimulators, too.
1. Excuse: "I like when he is under the influence of the alcohol". If staying in the bar, the guy is talking "How nice you are" and hugging a bit stronger, then he should, it is time to think, if you can trust to the words of the guy when he is drunk. And, if you really need such the guy?
2.Excuse: "At least, he is not drinking the strong drinks". Do not let to make a fool of yourself. That he is not getting out of legs each time when you are together, does not mean that is good to switch off the brain with the light drink each time when you are together.
Remember :
-- The guy's words mean nothing, if he said them while being drunk. "I love you", or other sayings, that are said when he is drinking (even the light drink), means nothing.
-- Using the alcohol and drugs, it is not a way to the most important feelings of the person.
-- You deserve such the man that need not to use any stimulators to spend time with you.
The guy does not like the woman that much, if he does not want to marry that woman. Each of the ex- boyfriends that used to tell you that he does not want to marry, or does not believe in married, or has doubts towards getting married, once will make weeding. But not with you.
Remember:
-- "Does not want to get married", or "Does not want to get married with me" - these are two different things. Get sure to which group exactly belongs the guy.
-- If you have different points of view about getting married, probably there will be found also other issues that would bring to disagreement.
-- If in your relationship nothing is changing, so what for are you waiting there?
-- Somewhere in the world there is the guy who wants to get married with you.
The guy does not like you that much, if he has left you.
1. Excuse: "He needs me". Do not stay happy, knowing that the guy misses you. Sure, he has left a unique woman. But, he was and he is a man who left you.
2. Excuse: "After such the decision it is a bit easier". There is one thing that the young man would never do, if he does not imagine his life without you: such the guy will never leave you.
3. Excuse: "But all do like this". Sure, the sex after driving apart is cool, as it is nice to have sex with the person that you know. And, it is also cool to have sex with the person to whom there are strong feelings.
4. Excuse: "But, later he wants to come back". After you and your young man separate, he will start to look for another lady, a better one. And, if he fail, he would feel lonely and will come back. It does not look like that the guy likes you that much. But, looks like the guy does not like to stay alone.
5. Excuse: "I disagree to accept the fact, that he left me". It is a pity that the guy left you. But, trying to make the boy-friend to come back, you make the boy-friend to think : "What did I once found in this crazy bitch?" Remember to be always on top and never getting crazy.
Remember:
You can not stop the split of relationship with conversations. The discussions will not help here. The split of relationship is the final decision and is not discussed.
-- Sex after finishing the relationship does not mean that you are together again.
-- There is no need to remind him what a wonderful person you are.
--Somewhere in the world there exist the person who would be very happy that you did not restart once the relationship with your terrible ex- boy-friend.
The guy probably does not like you that much, if he just disappeared. So, here is everything clear. This way, the guy let the woman understand that she is so much far away from what he likes or wants, that he did not even respond the calls or does not call by his own.
1. Excuse: "May be, he died". There is nothing worse like not to get the respond from the person who you are in love. The only one reason why you should write such the person this is the wish to get the confirmation of the regret. Did you forget that better not? You are very busy with your fans, potential boy-friends, and you do not have time for such the silly things!
2. Excuse: "So, seems like I cannot even fight with him for the last time?" It can seems like you will feel better, if you call the guy and fight with him on phone. You can feel like you let him to get out clean. But, nothing from what you want to tell him, will make the situation to be better, or him to feel guilty. It is possible to you that time in more useful way.
3. "But, I just would like to get the respond". Do you think you deserve to get the respond what has happened in deed? Sure! I can respond you: you have met a terrible person.
Remember:
-- May be the guy really stays in hospital, suffering from amnesia, but more realistic thing there is that he just is not interested in you so much.
-- The missing of respond it is exactly his respond to you.
-- Do not give the guy the possibility to regret you again.
-- Let the guy's mother to make scandals for him. And you are too busy person for him.
-- There is no secret: the guy just went away from your life, and he is not worth you.
