"I THOUGHT YOU ARE NOT LIKE ALL OTHERS"

"I THOUGHT YOU ARE NOT LIKE ALL OTHERS"

That woman got acquainted with some guy there, and in two weeks they started already to life together. He did a bank card for her immediately. And gave it to the lady, with the comment that he did not want she to feel lack of something.

The woman did not have actually problems with income. She was working, supporting herself by her own. She never used to take money from that card also because she felt not comfortable to do that. But, she felt a pleasure of the fact that the guy offered her the one. They were together for a three months. All was wonderful in their relationship. Romantic things and all the rest.

But, one day the woman got the desire to buy some cream there. It was expensive and she did not have enough money at that time. So, she did the shopping. Sure, primary the woman asked the guy, if she could do it from that bank card that he had gone for her once. And he agreed.

But, after the shopping the same day the guy split of with his partner. He commented the reason of separation in the next mood: "I thought that you are different, but you are like others".

Comment of psychologist :

The guy is a willy one and knows how to catch the woman. All women like to feel protected, to feel that they have someone to count on when they need it. So, he was doing in that way, offering the card there. He is even double willy. Because, in spite of that, indeed he did not want the lady to do shopping there, but he still agreed. It looks like the guy was checking there, if the woman is not checking out him. Or, in the other words, if she still would buy the thing, or not.

Indeed, the guy was not a one who would take care about the woman. And, obvious the offer was not a sincere one offer.

As we see, he chose the woman who could support herself alone and did not want his money. And we have the conformation of that: for the months they have been together. Each person can have a need in the life about the help. And, it is good that has happened like his that: a weakness of the woman towards that cream helped her to investigate who was that guy that she used to have the relationship with. Better not to stay with such the person ever. As later in her life the woman could have the real need of help, and the guy would not, I think. So, she is lucky twice there, as she did not loose much time for a person who indeed is not a gentleman, is a greedy one, and does not deserve her.