"I WANT THERE WAS THREE OF US"

"I WANT THERE WAS THREE OF US"

The guy got acquainted with a very beautiful and smart 28-years old girl. She was also a very good one in sexual life, too. And was cooking like a chef there..Perfect woman, nothing to say!

They were dating for one year. And later the guy has done her the wedding offer. And the lady agreed.

The wedding was in Paris. The Eiffel Tower: the girl with the tears up to the eyes was saying "yes"! And, later the celebrations in the most fashionable places of the capital city. And later the honey moon to the exotic countries...

The guy wanted to have children with her. So, he immediately said there. I want there was three of us!"

The girl stayed in silence for a while and said that she needed to exit for a while. She came back in half an hour with the boy of 5 years old and said: "Get acquainted, please. This is my son"...

Comment of psychologist:

Unexpected and rare turn out.. Normally the guys do not tell about their past and kids, and  here is the opposite. Probably, the girl had a bad experience in the past with the guy who was a father of her kid. And, it is not excluded that after she had some bad experience with other guys, who when used to know that she had already the kid, did not want to have a serious relationship, to marry with her. And she was hiding her child..

This way she got married without problems. Just not telling all about the past, and did not risk the relationship would be stopped before getting married. But, the guy might feel cheated in this way. And even, if he used to love that girl much, it is not excluded that they would not divorce. As not telling such the important moment of her past, is a kind of lie, too. The problem is that the trust can be lost, and the relationship can become not like it was before.

More over, the kid is not a thing. All this time when the couple was dating, and, probably living together for a while, the child was with someone else. So, the kid was missing mother there for quite a long time. And the kid missed mother's wedding and honey moon. While mother was having fun and organising her life, the kid was aside. And the kid needs mothers presence whatever happens there.