A MARRIED MAN LOOKING FOR THE MEETING WITH NOT MARRIED WOMAN

A MARRIED MAN LOOKING  FOR THE  MEETING  WITH NOT  MARRIED WOMAN

If  you  are  married,  be careful  when still  looking  for  the dates.  Be  careful  also  to  talk  about  your  wife with another  girls. Otherwise, it  can  finish  sadly  in  the  hospital.  Like,  for  example, in this  dating story. 

The  guy  was  not  happy  about  the  sexual  life  with  his  wife. All  the  time  she  complained  about headaches or  red days. When  he  did  not have  a  sexual  rapport with  the beloved for more  then  a  month,  he  tried  to  find  someone  else  for  fun. 

The  man  registered  on  some  dating  site. The town was  small  indeed,  but  he still  found lots of ladies who wanted to get acquainted. He began to choose. “Damn, this is too old, this too stupid”... Still found three interesting. One  did  not  respond. The second one did not like to  meet. And the third one, very much pretty on the  photo, that  even remind  him some actress,  was  open  to  dating immediately.  

They  did not  call  each  other.  Just in  the  chat agreed about  the  place  of  meeting : in a cafe that would be far away from friends. The  man  arrived as agreed, sat down at a distant table, so that he and  the  girl could not be seen well,  and was  waiting  for  the future  lover. 

He  was  waiting  there, but  nobody  appeared. Then  he  started  to  look  round the  cafe. At one table far away there  was  a  woman. He  could  see  her  just  from  behind. But something in  her  outlook made him to  feel worried. The  more he  was  looking  at  her, the  more  he  was  getting  the  thought that  he  knew  that  woman. 

He slowly approached the  woman from behind and and  called  the  name of…  the  wife. The  lady responded with lust YES and slowly turned around ...

The  fatal  meeting  finished in the way  that the guy  got  into the surgery department  of  the  hospital. One calmed him down: his faithful was in the department of traumatology of  the  same  hospital...  

Comment  of psychologist:

Classical  situation: the  man is  looking  for another  one, a kind  of  fun  aside. The  most  wild-spread  thing  when guy,  finding the  excuse he is  not  happy  in  his  private  live, and satisfacts his sexual  desire with  others. It does not mean that  the  married is doomed to fall apart,  if a man  is  betraying. As,  there are guys  who  meet  many  girls,  but  at the  same  time,  they  are  good  in  the  family,  like  husbands,  fathers,  partners. But,  depends  how the  person  is  going  this, and  which wife he  has, which  personality  she has. 

In  this  case,  the  woman probably watching  the  problems they  have  in  the  family,  started  to  spy  him. She  registered up to the  site  not  for  fun,  but  to  get  to  know  what  indeed  was  going  on. Probably,  she  had  some  suspicions  and  she  was  right  about her  feeling of  betraying. And she  was the  woman  with  exploding  character,  what  was  not  very  good  for  the  guy. As her  reaction for  such  the thing  there  was  that  he  got  into  the  hospital. The guy  seems  like was  the  same  exploding  mood,  as  she  gave  the  punch  back. Just why? First  of  all,  he  was  not  right  to  betray. Better  it  is  to  divorce,  if situation is bad  there. He  just  chose  a  comfortable  for  him way. And,  second  one, it  is  not  a  true  man's  behaviour  to beat  a woman in  any  case.