MEETING THAT DID NOT HAPPEN

MEETING  THAT  DID  NOT  HAPPEN

The worst thing probably  is  to  give  the hope  and to  ruin  it.  It  can  not  only  to  destroy  the  trust  about  the  people,  but  also  to  create 
much  problems.

The  girl met  with  the  guy on the dating site. But he was from another city. They corresponded for two months, talked on the phone and on  camera. But  seems  like  they both  did not  like  much communication this  way. 

So,  the  girl  just bought tickets to come to see him in  real. He was very happy, promised  to  meet  her in  the  airport. And the  girl  was  very willingly and happy to come to him. And fucked up…

No one met her. No calling, too. The number did not exist any  more. He deleted  his  profile from the web site, blocked  the  contact  on  camera. The  girl  still  tried to go to the address that he gave her, and there were completely different people living in. She  had  nothing  to  do  like  just  to go  to  the  airport and being disappointed to come  back  home. Lucky  there  was  still  a  fly  and  she  had  enough  money to  pay  the unpredictable  expenses. Since  then  she  never  used  to go  to  the  meeting, in  such  a  risky way, with  whom  she  did  not  know. 

Comment  of psychologist:

The  girl  is  a  risky one. That's  ok,  you  never  know  where  you  will find  your  future. And  it  is  nothing  bad,  if  you try  something,  if  it  does  not  hurt  you. The  girl bought  the  ticket to  the place  where potentially future match was  waiting  for  her. The conversation  with  him seems  like  was developed good  there before, so  why  not?  How  not  only  people  used to  meet  and  stay  together? Seems  like  nothing  hard  to  do  the first  step  to  meet  your  destiny. 

And  what  did  the  guy? He  simply was  not  serious. Not  serious  about  his intends, and  not  even serious to  tell  the girl  not  to  come  to  the previous  discussed  place, so she  not  to  loose the time,  money,  and   did  not  get  into troubles. Probably,  he did not  plan  any  meeting  with  any girl  in  general,  or  did  not want  to  meet  exactly with that  girl,too... And, it  was  easier  just to  block  the  account,  then to  explain something. Skipping, easy way. Good  for  both  that  they  did  not  meet,  as  guy  did  not  have  serious  intends,  and  the girl  did  not  get  hope  that  something  can  be  between  them,  too. Good,  that  she  had  money  to  come  back,  and  did  not  get  in  trouble  to  remain  outside  for  a  while.