Sometimes better to show all the bad parts of yourself at the beginning of the relationship. This way you will take it just less painful, if the person do not accept some parts of you.
The girl had an ugly smile. Teeth were even, the bite also were correct. But the shape of teeth was strange, something like a Joker. She used to have a habit, when she smile, to cover her mouth with my hand. Even her young man did not see that smile in three years of relations.
And now arrived the time when the young man was making an offer to his loved girl. The girl was so happy that she forgot about the smile, and about everything in the world, and did not cover her mouth.
Her groom has risen from his knee, shacked himself off, hided the box, silently apologised, saying that he can not see such a smile all his life. The girl was shocked, and people were still clapping the hands ...
Comment of psychologist:
The situation is confused. From one hand is hard to believe that for years the girl was hiding her defect, not nice teeth, in such the master way that her boy-friend never had seen them. As they were living together, making love, kissing. Even touching with the tongue these teeth, the guy could feel the shapes, and recognise it in sensible way, not only with eyes that defect. So, hard to believe that guy did not know about it before getting married.
More realistic is that the guy did not want to marry that girl, or to marry at all. And found not nice teeth of his fiancee just like the excuse. More over, that the defect of the smile nowadays is not a problem, and it is possible to make a hollywood smile, if to visit a doctor.
The young man probably did not want to tell directly about his intend not to get married. And decided to make guilty somebody else. In this case, he made guilty, the shapes of the teeth. That's ok, better not to get married, if no wish. As, it is under a very great doubt that these young people to be happy later.
But, why to do it when all guests are invited and the party is going on? That is the worst thing that the guy has done, as he put the lady in the bad and confused situation this way. How to explain later the invited people what is going on and why married has not happening? What people will think and how will take such the situation? Which problems will it create to the girl and her family? Probably, the guy did not take care much about all this, if was doing this way. His intend: not to be guilty, that's set. Pretending he never noticed and it was a terrible surprise for him exactly this moment. But, why, he did not offer to solve the problem in a medical way? Why this idea did not appear in his head, just the one to go away only? True love the ugly teeth cannot stop. As, except the ugly teeth, the girl probably had many other good qualities, if he had spent with her all this time till married day.
But, why to do it when all guests are invited and the party is going on? That is the worst thing that the guy has done, as he put the lady in the bad and confused situation this way. How to explain later the invited people what is going on and why married has not happening? What people will think and how will take such the situation? Which problems will it create to the girl and her family? Probably, the guy did not take care much about all this, if was doing this way. His intend: not to be guilty, that's set. Pretending he never noticed and it was a terrible surprise for him exactly this moment. But, why, he did not offer to solve the problem in a medical way? Why this idea did not appear in his head, just the one to go away only? True love the ugly teeth cannot stop. As, except the ugly teeth, the girl probably had many other good qualities, if he had spent with her all this time till married day.
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