FATHER WITH A GUN

FATHER  WITH A GUN

To  be a  harsh parents it is  not  always  a  good option. Sometimes  it  can  ruin  the purest feelings  and  intents.

The  girl  was young, cheerful, virgin. The guy understood everything and did not insist on  any sexual  rapport. The  relationship  was a platonic one.

After a month of  relationship  the  couple got acquainted with the parents of  the girl. It turned out that their fathers  even  used  to  get to  know each  other  somehow,  as  both visited a local church. 

That day happened that the couple came to  the  parents  of  the  girl,  so her  groom to get  to know them personally. They put the guy to sleep in the attic. 

In  a  bit the young  man woke up from the rustle. The girl decided that she wanted that her boy-friend to  make  love  with  her there and immediately. He  was still dreaming, when  he felt  the  girl up  to  him. And  the  next  moment the  light was  turned  on, and  when  a  poor  thing has  opened the eyes,  he saw the girl’s dad with a gun in  front  of  them. Then he have heard the shot. He  guy could  not  even remind properly how he ran away that  night  from that  house. And  he did  not  see  the  girl  since  then, and  she  did  not  contacted  him. 

Comment of psychologist: 

The world  is  not  always like  it  seems  like. Different  people see the  same  thing in  different  way. Or, sometimes one thing  can  look  like  different one. Important  not to  do  spontaneous conclusions. As  they  can  be  wrong, and  can  create  misunderstanding  or  even hurt in  some  way. 

In this  situation, the  father  is  a religious person,  and does not  accept his  daughter has sex  before married. That's ok. And  the  girl  who  was  from  that family should  know  the  father's attitude to  such  the  things and  rules of  their  family, too. So,  passion  is  passion, but  she  should  not jump up  the guy that  way in  the  house  of  her  parents. 

The  father control his  girl  and  her boy-friend. That'a all  right. But, being religious  person, is that right  to  scare the fiancee of  his  daughter  with the gun? What,  if  the  guy  has  a week heard,  for  example,  and he  could  kill the young man with  a  heard  attack? Because,  probably not  every  day the  guy used  to  see the  gun  in  front  of  him.  And  the  guy  could  not  know what  the  father of  the  girl is  gonna do, when  saw  this  confused situation, too. Indeed, the  guy  was not  raping the  girl,  she did  not  call  for  help.  It  was  really  a  confused situation there. Nobody did anything bad  then. At  least yet,  so  the arrival  with a gun  was too much, I  guess.  It  was  just  enough  to  separate  them for  the  night, and  in the  morning  to  talk. 

Seems like the  father was  a person who just too  much  worried  about  his child, and  too  much exaggerated. Probably,  he  did  not  want to get  to  know  what happened that  night indeed later,  or  did  not  believe what  was  said. It  proves this  version,as  the  young  people  did  not  contact  with  each  other  any  more since then. And, may  be,  both of  them  could  stay  happy,  as  seems like both  were  good people,  and some  mistakes  can  make  everybody.