CAREFUL SISTER

CAREFUL  SISTER

It  happens that close people  can help  to  look  for girlfriends  or  boyfriends for their  friends  or  relatives. This  girl  tried  her  best to help his brother,  but the problem  was…his sexual orientation. 

According  to  the  dating  profile,  the  girl looked  like  to be the queen of the party, liked rock, was beautiful, sexy,  with bright  photos. The  guy did  not  have  much  believe that they can  be  together,  but he still  decide to continue  communication.  He wrote to her, and  still received an answer. The correspondence began. The girl turned out to be interesting and far from stupid. Not in bad way was guided in literature and art. He was very surprised and fascinated. 

They quickly agreed to a date. While he was walking, he  got  the  idea  that something was clearly not right. Still, the girl that was sitting in the cafe, was just like in the photo. In  a cute way  they became acquainted. Here he felt her intellect was clearly not the one that was in the correspondence. And very soon she said: "Forgive me - you are a good boy. But I already have a young man”.

The guy was surprised. He asked for  what  she  came  to the  meeting  then. And then the  girl added: “In deed,  you liked my brother, and he talked with you. He asked me to meet with you, so I prepared you for the topic .. Well, gays are  also normal people, lovers and you will be fine together. And he will now come up”. 

The  guy  was  not  the  one  who  can  be  scared  that  easily. But  such  the turn  out he  did  not  expect. He  said  just  sorry,  it  was  not  his case, and  left the cafe immediately. 

Comment  of psychologist:

The girl  always  can  find  the  way to talk  easier way, then  guys  can. More  over,  that  the  situation  is  delicate. The  gay guy had  the  conversation  with  the  normal  orientated guy on the casual orientated site. So,  the  gay man did not  know what  will be  the  reaction  there of  normal  orientated guy. Probably, the gay man liked  exactly  that  guy,  and it  was his  goal  to get  acquainted  just  with  him:  nothing  there  to  do  with  the  sympathy. The normal  way  orientated guy, sure, was not  expecting  another  male  on  that  end,  but  the  girl. And, who  knows,  if  that  person is not  bi-sexual,  or  even feels ugly  about  that, what  to  expect  then? And with the sister,  who  is  female, the  situation  would  be  any ways,  easier. 

The guy,  whom  chose  to gay man  to  get  to  know closer, was, as  we  see, a wrong  choice. He  was  not  the  one  who wanted  to  do  the  experiments,  or  try  something new. He  wished  to  have  straight orientated  relationship. So, not to  loose the  time  any  more,  just  went  away  politely. Better still, in  such  cases,  to  get  to  know partners,  in  specialised  sites,  not  only  not  to  get  some  punch  there,  but  also  to  have  more  chances  to obtain  a positive  result.