MEDIOCRE PRRFPRMANCE
The boy invited the girl to the coffee shop. He did not order anything except the coffee, and did not offer anything to order to the girl … It was already the third cup of coffee, they were drinking and smoking…
He started to tell the girl how he was hugging up ladies everywhere and anytime, like everyone wants to get to know him… At the same time there was nothing in his appearance that could attract so much. His outlook was not the one that could make him to be that popular among the females, as much as,it was said.
In a while, the girl went to the ladies' room. After a couple of minutes she returned, and saw him sitting down so pleased. A minute later, a waiter approached him and handed a note, saying that it was from the girl who was sitting at one table, wanted to get acquainted and just left away. The guy showed this note in the very visible demonstrative mood. There was written what a handsome guy he was, the name and the phone number of the girl to call to…
The lady was so rusty. “Mediocre theatre”. - Just have thought she. So, simple got up and left.
Comment of psychologist:
There are so may courses and studies about pick up. Many people, specially guys, use them. Some are from good teachers, and some are not. And some are good pupils there, and some are not, indeed. It is also not enough just to read something about pick up and how to do with the girl, but also to be a kind of actor to fulfil the actions they suggest there, correctly. Otherwise, the result will be like this. A scenery, that have to be a theatre performance, will appear like a circus one improvisation. The result, I think, is obvious. The smile, the laugh, the kind of irony will appear there. But, sure not the impression that was planned before, not attracting attention and not falling in love, sure.
This is what we have in our case. The tools, like the secret note, for example, were used in the wrong way. As all the rest, in the appearance of the guy used to show that he can not be that famous among the girls. All has to be organic, without contrasts. May be, in this case if the guy let to understand the girl that he indeed is not very famous among girl, because, for example, he is shy, but he is interested in serious relationship much, all could be the best way. And, the girl does not only would not go away, but also start regular meeting with the young man. More over, a pick up is not always that good. One thing, if it is used just to attract attention, not for regular lies. Otherwise, sooner or later, it will get visible that things are not like they seemed like there. And it will mean disappointing and end of relationship.
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