“MY LAST BREATH OF FREEDOM”

“MY  LAST  BREATH  OF FREEDOM”

If not  to  talk  about  your  personality  clear at  once,  it  can  be  a  big  surprise for  someone  later. My  be  even that big  surprise that can  make to  get disappointed. 

The  guy met a girl on SMS dating. It also was a very interesting alive talking acquaintance. So,  they  have met. 

In general, the guy was not hooked.  But, it was something in  that  girl  that made  him to feel  like  to leave right away.  And after a little talk together, he still left  away. The  girl was not understanding his hints that the reciprocity would not work and that he did not like her. Then he told her this already straightforward. Still the  girl asked him to accompany her home. 

When  they  were walking along the canal,  the  girl suddenly jump onto the  guy and started to kiss and  touch very hard. And  it  was  something  wild  in  the  way  how  she  was doing  it. 

In  a moment the girl  said that she was going to marry tomorrow. And  that  the  guy is  her last breath of freedom. She asked  to  make  sex  with  her right away in the gateway.  The  girl  said  that  she always wanted it. And asked, maybe he also had a friend to  do  it  in  three. 

The guy  came  to  the  meeting with  the intend to  find a normal  long  term relationship. And  this  occasion as minimum  made  him to feel shocked.  He  politely  answered  that no way to  make  her  happy in  the  way she  wanted.  And  just  asked her who will  get such  the treasure like  she. Funny that  she  called  the  name  of  her  groom.  But the  guy  did  not have  heard it  properly, as  he  was going already  home. And  the  girl  was  calling  him  and getting  offended that  he has not  even told her  bye.

Comment  of psychologist:

A funny  case where  all  is  the  opposite:  the  man wants  serious  relationship,  and  the  lady wants  sex  without  obligations. And the opposite  style  of  behaviour:  man  is skipping  such a random sex,  and  the  girl  is  insisting. 

A  man  could  want  really  a  serious  relationship. But,  not  often  the  man  will  regret a  random sex,  if  he  is  single. This is the  male nature. Normally, they  can  say  "I do  not  want  a  random  sex",  if  they  are  not attracted with  the female,  her outlook  or behave.

Why  the girl  was  so  insisting? May  be,  she  did  not  have  enough  sexual rapport in  her  life  in  general. Or, may be,  the fact  of getting  married, the girl takes like the life  event  that  limits her freedom of actions. Why  is  it like  this? The reasons  can  be  different. May be,  the young woman is  not  a  very  open-minded,  hide  something  from  her  partner, plays  a  kind  of  game, pretending somehow with  him. And,  this  way,  she  does  not  feel very  free. When  you  are  just  dating,  or  still  not married,  it  feels  one  way. And,  when  you  understand that  with the official wedding things  might  change, you  can  feel some  pressure up,  the  limitation  of  freedom. In  deed, it  is  not  like  this,  it  is  just  like some  person  is  taking something..