A SECRET SICKNESS
For the several years the girl did not see the man with whom she was secretly in love. She met him almost by accident. The guy said that he was dating with another one. But he was in love with her all this time. And if only the girl just would say “yes”, they would be together.
The guy wanted family and children. The girl has got frozen without a word of respond. He was upset, and he left away without a single word, too.
The girl had the same serious intends about the relationship with him. But she could not tell him that she was sick with cancer a few years ago and she was constantly on drugs. And that she could never have children. She just loved him and wanted he to have a normal family and a normal wife..
Comment of psychologist:
Some people, if have problem with the health, find themselves like a kind of disabled. They think they are creating problems for others and do not want to do this. So, they prefer to stay alone, or not do not have serious relationship like family. There is some sicknesses, like cancer, that some people can not have children, or they recommend not to have ones. So, if the partner wants his or her own children, then it might be a problem. Because, not everybody like to adopt..
It is not always right, because there are some people, for whom some disadvantages of the health of others is not a problem indeed. It is normal to take care, and it brings even pleasure. If you love a person, what can stop you? If you love the person, you share with that person the path that he or she is doing. How many people there are in a wheel chair and these couples stay happy, for example?
May be, if the guy was more insistent, and could find the way to make the girl to say why indeed she is refusing to get along with him, it could work good then. And they would stay happy together. Because seems like the guy wanted much, and the girl was against only for one reason there: her health that makes complications..
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