Monday, December 11, 2017

THIS ONLY WHEN I AM IN RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE ELSE!

THIS ONLY WHEN I AM IN RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE ELSE!

The woman had a lover. A wonderful sex there was with him there. No shy, many experiments, artistic way of dealing, - seemed like she would never find better one...

But, the woman used to have intimacy with that guy only when she was in relationship with someone else! Because when the woman was lonely, after the sex with him, the past used to fly up in her memories, when they were a couple together. And these memories each time are making her very sad: it is not possible already to change something or make that time back. As the guy does not want to have the serious relationship. He prefers to stay alone and live a free life for himself only.

Comment of psychologist:

A rare case. More often wild spread situation is when the man is in relationship, but still looking for or has a lover aside. And, with the men it often happens because they want various of sexual life, or not satisfied enough with their sexual life, or argue with the woman that they are in relationship with.

And in our case it looks like just the result the love without response. The prove is that woman suffers there, because does not let the lover to have any contact with her when she is not in the relationship. The woman is not staying all the time in one relationship and is changing partners there. She, indeed, is not falling in love with anybody there, her heard is busy, seems like. Looks like, she is looking for someone that will remind her the lover. But, she is not lucky to find the one similar, the one that could remind him. If it would happen, who knows may be she could be married already. And this way, like in subconscious way, she is like waiting still the time when the period of being free and live only for himself would pass for her lover. And, he would get the desire still of constant relationship with one person there. But, for some people such the period may never arrive. They are like just that, "free birds". And this way that woman can remain also not married and without family, if she would not over live her past love that have the influence on her present.


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