ABOUT LOVE AND RELATIONSHIP

ABOUT LOVE AND RELATIONSHIP

Many people are separating there because are confused what is love and what is relationship. The love has no conditions. And the relationship does have.

When people meet each other suddenly and fall in love with each other there is no relationship. But, when there is the necessity of regularity the meetings, living together, spending the time together, this is already the relationship.

Many people try to exchange love with relationship, and relationship with love. Or, with other words, to exchange the common being with duties, and the duties exchange with the common being.

So, the love is the emotion, the special condition there. And the relationship is the common activities. And, it is not possible to replace one with another, as they both exist independently.

And when there are difficulties in the relationship, it is important to understand that it is not difficulties in love, but the difficulties in common activities there. It can appear that the one whom you love there, can not or does not want have with you the common activity - relationship ( duties).

It is important not make a confusion about duties and love, and do not mix them. And do not replace one with another, too. We can be honest making the relationship clear, and we can continue to love a person. By the way, when they make the relationship, the duties clear there, it is normal to be angry about not keeping to the duties, and what was discussed before.

But, to wait that there is no need to discuss anything in relationship of a couple, this is strange. Because only the love is by default. And the duties in the relationship, these are the things that is necessary to discuss in the details there. The same way, like you would discuss the details of your business. As in this point, both business and relationship will not work well, if not to fix things, not to put the rules, not to make both parts to collaborate together.