PSYCHOLOGIST MYHAIL LABKOVSKI ABOUT RELATIONSHIP: OUTRAGEOUSLY AND APT QUOTES

PSYCHOLOGIST MYHAIL LABKOVSKI ABOUT RELATIONSHIP: OUTRAGEOUSLY AND APT QUOTES

These quotes have done much contraversy there: someone accepts them, and someone does not. But, all they are based on many years of experience and written in cynicism mood. So, they will leave no one indifferent.

-- To have a happy family, married, sexual life with one partner, it is necessary to have a stable psychics. Neither concessions, nor compromises will help. This way it is only possible to get some cardiological or oncological disease. When the person has a stable psychics, he or she can live together with a person all life long and be in love with one person only, too.

-- We measure the love with the level of suffering. But, the healthy love it is just how much you are happy there.

-- The healthy person does not want to get married. The first that you have to do when you got the desire to get married, this is to get rid of the desire to get married. In other words, if you want to get married, stop thinking about that, make the value of that idea up to the zero point.

-- What is necessary to do to get married there? In fact, it is necessary only one thing: to be yourself. It is enough. And, in total, they love for that.

-- Modesty does not make anyone better. Because of complexes, being not self-confident, low self value, the girl is living without relationship and sex not because she is ugly, but because she has a bad attitude to herself. Such the girl has to get rid of this.

-- They do not like people because they bend down. Such the woman for the man will be just nothing there. The paradox is that men just adore the stern women.

-- The reason of women's problem is not that he is treating there like the ass hole. The reason is that the woman has a nervous there that needs the exit. For that exit there is necessary a particular man and relationship, in which she could suffer. That's why in subconscious way she is starting such the relationship, because from childhood she has a psychological need of that.

-- The men are created like this that since childhood they come to those who gives them approval with eyes. The healthy man is like a kid. He comes up when the woman is smiling there, watch into his eyes.

-- When one person is exchanging for another person the entire world, it means that such the person does not have his or her own world there.

-- Do you know the primary difference between the healthy person and neurotic there? The healthy person also suffer, but because of the real stories. And neurotic suffers from the invented stories. And, if there are not enough sufferings, he or she would look for and find the extra portion there.

-- The woman never has to stand what she does not like in the relationship. She has immediately talk about that. And, if the man is not changing, she has to separate with him.

-- The men, like children, both like when the woman has a character.

-- If you do not like how the man is treating there, do not look for justification of his behaviour. The situation in which he did not call back, for a normal woman means the end of the relationship. And for not a healthy one means the beginning of love.

-- And what about looking for a partner there... It is important if your partner is clinging to you. If you love him, if you are worried about him, then there are no limits.

-- When the stewardess is demonstrating you the saving life devises, what is she telling you about the oxygen masks there? When you are travelling with a child, first support yourself with the mask and then the child. And, here is the point. Everybody wants to help the child, remaining completely crazy there. It does not work like this. If you wish the child was well doing there, do something with your head at first.

-- The healthy people always choose themselves, and neurotics always choose the relationship to the detriment of themselves, and here is the difference between both groups of people.

-- Being single it is not the lack of love from outside. This is the lack of interest to the own personality, and, by the way, from the times of childhood.

-- The only one period of time in the life of the person is when the person is dependent on circumstances, is childhood and this is dependence on parents. In other cases, being in the relationship or not, this is the choice of grown up person.

-- The family therapy is the divorce. And the only one kind of family therapy is really useful: where the mediator while divorcing is the psychologist.